Self-love, first step to real freedom

Self-love, first step to real freedom

Have you ever caught the question, “But what do they think of me?” We are constantly monitoring, controlling and correcting ourselves. We long for perfection.

We crave for perfection to increase our value and face concerns about other people’s ideas about us. People don’t have time to think about others because they also think about themselves and if so, we add them to work.

Let’s not bother about perfectionism.

Who do I really want to look like? However, that person already exists and I will most likely not be better than the original. So how could I become an original? Start being yourself. Accept your mistakes and be aware of your weaknesses.

On the other hand, when I’m the original, no one can be better. What I have has no one else in all the world.

“I am an absolute original. Great, isn’t it? ”What about that now? How do I start supporting who I really am?

First and foremost, relax, we are all on the same boat, we are all constantly learning every day, every minute and from everyone.

Self- Love

1. Take responsibility for your life.Whatever happens in our lives, we can handle it, it is true that we will never feel ready. Well, we all have the predispositions to handle any situation, if someone helps us, holds us or saves us, we lose our time, because only we possess the opportunity to move. And with help, we would never be able to do the opposite, on the contrary, the situation would happen to us again until the day we could do it alone.

2. Believe in your abilities.No one is responsible for my own life, no one has the obligation to help me. The sooner we stop relying on someone to help us, the sooner we can resolve the situation. The fact that we can do it all ourselves will give us incredible strength. Let’s not look at the past or the future, let’s just overcome fear. Let’s not say: I’m not good enough. I’m not handy. I don’t have enough experience ….. You always have everything you need and even something extra.

“Let’s not attach importance to negative thoughts and think positively about ourselves. Let’s not think about what we can’t have, instead thank for what we already have.” Oprah Winfrey

3. Errors do not exist There are no mistakes, there are only lessons through which we learn and gain skills and experience. Life is more than one mistake.

“There are no mistakes, RELAX, CALM DOWN, it’s just a challenge.” 

4. Daily meditation I can’t even count how many celebrities do morning meditation anymore. It’s just unbelievable, unbelievably important. Let’s find 5,10,15 minutes before the start of the day for ourselves. Let’s not just think, let’s breathe, talk to God or thank ….. Let’s make time for ourselves.

5. Take care of yourself. Let’s learn, do sport or just make a face mask, go to the hairdresser. By all the procedures we show to the whole universe, I deserve great things.

6. Do not lose contact with yourself. Whenever we feel emptiness, let’s try to look inside ourselves and find out the answer that is hiding somewhere deep inside us.

7. Focus on things you can be grateful for. Let’s focus on everything we have, we wake up to a new day, family, a roof over our heads …… Let’s learn to focus on what we have, not what we miss. What is to come, will come.

8. Become the master of your life. Only I am the captain of my soul and my calm, I am responsible for the possibilities that come into my life. It’s all just in my own head. I can change it at any time and set it differently. Let’s not leave the ship of our life without a captain.

“You will not get what you want or what you hope for. You get what you believe in. Because God has a big plan with you which is bigger than you can imagine,”

Oprah Winfrey

9. Keep your vibrations high. Keep your energy high and things with great vibration will come into your life naturally. “Only positive energy brings positive things” Oprah Winfrey 

10. It all starts with you. Who do I want to be in this world? What relationships do I want to have in my life? I choose the energy that surrounds me … First of all, if we don’t like ourselves, how can someone else like us. Let’s start building our love and the relationships around us will start to change on their own

….. all you need is love, Le Globless

Le journalist

International experiences with motivation and psychology